We live in a free world, we have every right to say No to anyone who we want. Maybe she is telling everyone that I have said No to her because she doesn't look that good or her skin tone, and everyone will be supporting her that I'm being an ass. But it's my freedom, I have one life, I don't want to spend it with someone who I feel no attraction, it must be mutual. It doesn't matter if you paint your colour everywhere, you have to respect the answer instead of being reckless.